Meet the author
Curlis James
Curlis James is a devoted baby nurse with a heart full of compassion and a mother’s touch. As a mother of grown children herself, she understands the importance of gentle, nurturing care during the earliest stages of life. With extensive experience in neonatal care, Curlis brings both medical knowledge and loving support to each family she serves.
They Are Not Parents
They Are Provider
Reading “They are not Parents they are Providers” offers a chance to reflect on your experiences and relationships. It speaks to anyone who has felt a lack of emotional connection in childhood or as a parent. The author shares heartfelt stories, making it easy to relate to the struggles and triumphs of family life. You’ll find valuable insights on how emotional neglect can impact children and parents, and how to recognize these patterns in your own life.
This book encourages a much-needed conversation about presence in parenting. It shows that being there for your loved ones can make all the difference, even in small ways. You’ll discover practical tips for fostering connection and communication, allowing you to build stronger relationships with those you care about.
It’s about acknowledging the past and taking steps toward healing and growth. You’ll feel empowered to break any cycle of neglect in your own life. Whether you are a parent, caregiver, or someone reflecting on your upbringing, this book provides the support you need. It inspires you to embrace the importance of love and presence in a disconnected world. Reading this book could truly transform how you connect with others.
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Experience the journey of parenthood like never before. Discover how emotional presence shapes our children’s lives. Join me in breaking the cycle of neglect and reconnecting with what truly matters. Let’s redefine family bonds and create a future filled with love and understanding. Your story starts here.
chapters
Explore the different chapters to glimpse the journey through emotional connection and the influence of parenting.
Introduction
For as long as I can remember, I’ve carried a deep ache in my heart—an ache born from watching children grow up in homes that didn’t feel like homes and from living through one myself…
The Shifting Landscape of Parenthood
Loving yourself doesn’t mean indulging in pleasures. It means doing what needs to be done to ensure that you are happy and healthy and that your needs (not merely wants) are met. Because how can you love anyone else if…
The Impact on Children
Technology is widely credited with advancements in science, engineering, medicine, and daily life. It has driven significant developments in various fields like chemistry, physics, and engineering, leading to more complex…
Impact on Parents
The saying that “parenting is the easiest thing in the world to have an opinion about, but the hardest thing in the world to do” holds weight. It’s not as easy a task as others think it is. In fact, most people suck at it….
Family Dynamics and Relationships
Parents are God’s way of showing he cares for us. They have multifaceted roles encompassing nurturing, guidance, and protection, all aimed at fostering their child’s well-being and development…
Societal Structures and Implications
The organized systems of social institutions, relationships, and patterns that define a society are called societal structures. They significantly affect individual behavior, social interactions, and overall societal well-being…
Redefining Parenthood
The saying holds true in every aspect of life, especially when children are involved. No doubt, parents get caught up with life’s busy schedule so much that they fail to provide adequate care and support needed for a child to grow up into an…
Conclusion
This work is about parenting—what should be and shouldn’t be. I have shared my years of experience of being a nurse and a nanny, and my intention is certainly not to step on anybody’s toes…
What Our Readers Say
Hear from those whose lives have been touched by the insights and stories in this book. Their experiences matter.
Reading this book opened my eyes to my childhood’s emotional gaps. The author’s tales connected deeply with me and assisted me in understanding how those experiences formed my parenting. I’ve been inspired to be more present with my kids, allowing us to connect in ways I never thought possible. This book has truly changed my approach to family life.
Judy Geddis
As a caregiver, I often feel overwhelmed by the emotional needs of the children I care for. This book validates that struggle and provides me with practical advice on how to better support them. The insights shared are relatable and relevant, making me more mindful of the small moments that matter. I feel empowered to create a more nurturing environment for the kids in my care.
June Bridegroom
I picked up this book after struggling with my childhood traumas. The author’s voice felt comforting and familiar, helping me feel less isolated in my experiences. Each chapter delivered new perspectives on healing and connection. I now have a deeper appreciation for the significance of being emotionally available for my kids and myself. This has been a transforming read for me.
